Depresses the hell out of me that lasses would go to such a drastic step as to have surgery to stop growing. It
makes me so sad, because there is nothing wrong with it. It’s not a
deformity, handicap, disfigurement, etc. It’s just who you are. It makes
you stand out, clothes are a bit hard to find, people say the drippiest
things imaginable to you...,
and a myriad of other things, but I don’t think there is anything so
drastic as surgery and hormone injections to stop your natural growth
called for. I could understand it if you have Marfan and you’re going to end up to
be Sandy Allen tall, side show freak tall. Then I could see surgical
intervention maybe being necessary. But being projected to be 6'3"? That is
just awesome, not a cause for consternation. I know it’s awkward for girls especially, but I hope they can
learn to accept themselves for who they are. It’s okay to be tall. Please. Grow tall. There aren’t nearly enough tall women in the world.
Showing posts with label Arianne Cohen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Arianne Cohen. Show all posts
Sunday, 13 May 2012
Wednesday, 4 November 2009
The Tall Book
Within a one week period I read an interview in Macleans with Arianne Cohen, author of The Tall Book, as well as an article about her and the book in Vogue.
I loved her comments that to be tall is to be public and that it means you constantly have a spotlight on you. And that it’s alienating to not fit in. Both very succinct points. To be very visible to a world you don’t fit into is a strange position to be in. And we have no choice but to accept it. Someone asked me once what I’d ask for if a genie came out of a bottle. “To be a short woman for a week.” A different gender just to see what that’s like, but to be anonymous for a while just seems like more of a novelty.
I jotted off a quick little note saying how much I’d enjoyed the interview and that I was on the hunt for her book and looked forward to reading it. I also included something I’d written about being tall and how it affects certain activities.
She sent me back a very nice letter, and mentioned that she’s working on a “users guide to being tall.” I replied with some info and businesses that may be of help to fellow talls. Some things that are a bit more obscure than just where to get pants that fit. Bespoke high end outdoor clothing, longer than average canoe paddles, built expressly for the customer backpacks, and where to get wetsuits and drysuits.
So if you’re tall, or know someone that’s tall, go out and buy her book! The link at the top of the page has a link where you can purchase the book.
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